This is such a great question. I had something happen just a few months ago where someone deliberately tried to hurt me. It cost me sleep at first, now it's in the past but I'm definitely not over it. The thoughts that keep me up at night have to do with questioning my own role in the situation, the possibility that I have some responsibility for it, and a questioning why or how someone could be so cruel. But at the end of the day, the most important thing I've learned from my yoga practice is that these are just thoughts, and I am not my thoughts. I am the witness to and observer of my thoughts. I can release any thought that doesn't serve me and lean into those that do. I'm staying with the idea the someone else's cruelty projected onto me comes from their heart, the confusion in their own mind, not from mine. That's their karma, not mine.